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A better response is: "Thank you, I accept your apology," creating a clear premise that your partner must own their actions. Domestic discipline, as described here, is probably practiced in many more homes than you and I would ever guess. If you were to see my husband and I in a restaurant or walking along the street, you would never guess in a hundred years that I spank him regularly. I sincerely believe that if more wives practiced let their husbands know they were capable of administering a good dose of woodshed discipline, the divorce rate would drop drastically. Who did I recruit for this mission? My neighbor. She was (she moved later) an airline flight attendant and married to a successful engineer. We live in a city with row houses with common walls. We knew that she and her husband had a happy sexually fulfilling marriage — thanks to the common walls. We knew them pretty well and had the occasional dinner. Her husband was a runner and it was obvious that he was in good shape. I confided in her and asked her to be the key holder. She immediately thought it would be great fun. Unfortunately, her husband was not amused and was not willing to participate in any way. I didn’t tell my husband, but simply invited her over for coffee about a week later. She was wearing the key. A foot fetish involves a desire to worship feet through acts such as massage, kissing, and smelling. As professional dominatrix Goddess Aviva previously told Allure, it's an extremely common fetish. If your partner shares that they have a foot fetish, it may be initially jarring, but it's an opportunity for you to discuss a potentially exciting new part of your sex life together. (And, if you're into it, just think of all the foot massages headed your way!) 4. Anal Sex Kristen, I can see why you’re at a loss after you’ve tried everything. You shouldn’t have to work so hard. That sounds really discouraging and scary. You are definitely not alone with this. I remember the days when I needed a miracle to fix my marriage. To paraphrase Thomas Wolfe, miracles not only happen around here, they happen all the time!

I love being in control of both a woman as a submissive and her man, especially when he is restrained. This was over 15 years ago, and to cut a long story short we married and even have small children now. She has always kept a stud, but until recently, I have found that I not have encountered them, until now…. You don’t get what you don’t ask for. "If you don’t directly tell your partner you want to be called a dirty slut and have your hair pulled, it won’t happen," Chiaramonte adds. "We get what we want when we can clearly ask for it."

Cynthia, Laura teaches a skill called “expressing your desires in a way that inspires.” It is very different than nagging, feels better, and yields better results. It often starts with “I’d love to…” Jeona, I’m sorry to hear about the cold war at your house. I still remember those at my house, and they were no fun. I’m happy you found your way here because you have the key to making things playful and passionate again. I hope you get your hands on the Six Intimacy Skills. I lay them out in my book/audiobook, The Empowered Wife, which you can read a free chapter of here: We want to make it clear that some of the suggestions below are relatively extreme and that the staff wants to make sure that our members are fully aware that when it comes to humiliation, these scenes mustbe pre-negotiated with the person with whom you are playing. Some of this is far fetched and unusual (and based on the desires we've seen in previous members over the years) and your partner may want warning before some of this occurs. I’m normally dominant but I can also be submissive. I perform tasks, but nothing beyond oral sex on either him or her. I’m 99% straight, but in the heat of the moment I can give a guy a blow job. Erotic humiliation lets you reclaim embarrassment by getting off on it. "Humiliation play is a consensual power exchange that is a very typical fetish. It can help people heal parts of the self that may have been bullied as a child. There's a sense of mastery over something that may have previously been non-consensual," says Renye. 14. Spectrophilia

A lot of what you said in this thread really resonated with me. To start with I had a Domme that was helping me find my femme side when I 1st discovered this facet of myself. I initially talked to her about sissies and she got very upset. Pretty much for what you mentioned about sissies being less of a man by being more of a woman. I asked her to give me some time to respond to what she said. A couple of weeks later I invited her over and showed her some Japanese anime about “Magical Girls” Sailor Moon or Pretty Sami are good examples. I talked to her about these series and how the main characters went through a magical transformation to become a hyper feminine superherion. Instead of viewing feminization as a something derogatory I wanted to embrace it as something empowering. I will never be a genetic female but I embrace my femininity and pursue it with a Gothic Lolita fashion style. ( No relation to Nabokov). I love my ruffles and take pride in the outfits I wear out in public. Just thought I’d share this with you. as a submissive husband I will share an experience which left me humiliated, and really questioned my commitment to the whole life style let me set the scene. I know that I am attractive to the oppose sex and to men as well, and I admit to flirting with gay men knowing full well that I have no interest in a physical relationship with them, I do all the alpha things I train hard and have a good toned body and I am fit, but I am approaching 45. So what does this behavior look like? Whether followed with, "I'm just kidding. Don't take everything so seriously!" or just hurled at you outright with no attempt to cover it up, this is often what your partner's potshots often sound like: Yes, Mistress” I reply, stand up and curtsey. I obey You, and go to fetch them. “Which paddle Mistress? The bigger heavier one or the lighter more flexible one?”There are many men who entertain fantasies of being dominated by a forceful woman all their lives yet would not dare ask their wife to spank them for fear of her reaction. If your husband has asked you to try a woman-in-charge relationship and you have agreed, you have more going for you than many so-called “perfect” marriages. This article contains some useful ideas and perspectives. But, you will eventually learn the most on your own.