The yoni massage work had lasting effects on my sexual experiences and also taught me much about true sexuality. To create a closed circuit in the Micro-cosmic Orbit you need to press the tip of the tongue against the soft palate. The yoni and breasts are largely sexualised in Western culture and women for generations have been made to feel shame in these areas as a result many women have a negative relationship with their yoni and their sexuality. Long held inhibitions in the West about sexuality and the shame and guilt associated with the genitals and sexual zones of the body have created deeply rooted barriers that prevent many women from fully expressing themselves.

Yoni massage offers a holistic approach to feminine wellbeing and should form an important part of a woman’s health-care regime. After massage women often tell me that they have never before been touched so thoroughly and with such undivided attention.When we experience a feeling, for example caused by the stimulation of our clitoris, we can recognize the feeling and either observe it from the outside or actually become the feeling. Before going into the individual phases and steps of yoni massage, it is important to look at the many layers of the female genitalia. For men, it is an invitation to learn more about the female mystery and to develop a better understanding of it. By releasing stagnant emotions, shame, guilt and negative believes that are deeply seated within the Yoni and opening the channels for sexual energy to flow, yoni massage opens the gate for women to experience deep fulfilling orgasm’ and to experience increased sexual wellbeing and enhanced health and wellbeing in all areas of life including improved self-esteem, creativity and deepen your sense of intimacy with yourself and others. Thus, the energy flow in the Microcosmic Orbit is the reverse of the flow in our body as a whole, where yang energy flows down and yin energy up.

In a session we start first with releasing any blockages that we hold around our womb so the circulation will flow to the yoni more freely. One of the biggest tools I recommend for de-numbing and re-pleasuring the vagina is the jade yoni egg. For this to happen one must develop trust within them to enable the yoni to fully surrender, then only the gates open to release trauma, Amrita, and sexual energy to flow throughout the body. It is a good book if you want to learn about yoni massage, but I feel like the book has a lot of content that could be removed, content that is not useful for my goal of learning the massage technique.

The receiver will then be asked to take a shower, to aid relaxation and prepare her for the session.

The yang energy of the Governor Vessel flows upward, and the yin energy of the Conception Vessel runs downward. Of course it is also possible to divide the two poles in a relationship, with one person taking over the receiving part and the other the giving part.

I encounter even more uncertainty and insecurity among women and men when we talk about the innermost point of the female genitalia.

The session is about empowering the client and before the yoni is touched permission is always sought and the whole session is directed by the receiver, she owns the session.Many women have become so disassociated with their yoni that they never consider them, but all negative emotions are held there and the yoni becomes an area of embarrassment and shame. Men have the possibility of letting themselves be guided by a woman, or guided by their own intuition, and thus become ever more aware of female body language. This is my 10-week signature online program for couples where we cover everything from squirting techniques in my entire Orgasmapedia, male stamina and marathon sex, communication skills and Tantric and Taoist practices. For example, an extensive massage in the area of the G-spot for women feels somewhat like an extensive prostate massage for men. women whose lives have been transformed through his unique tantric bodywork treatments and yoni massage therapy training.