And while it’s well-documented that all sex is made more pleasurable by lube, lube is especially important for lengthy love-making. If there was ever a marriage between cinematography and pornography, it was officiated by Antonio Da Silva. “The penis can take part in poetry,” he's said. Da Silva uses his camera to expose the explicit sexual experiences of gay men. He’s covered the areas of cruising and public sex, Internet hookups, performance and voyeurism. He also throws in a bit of cinematic flare. You’d be surprised how horny the image of a slow-growing erection can leave you. You need to talk about it ahead of time in deep detail, invest in lube and other sex aids and toys, go slower than slow, and communicate throughout. Pro tip:“Make sure that you communicate a lot so movements remain coordinated. Avoid creating too much space between you three, or else someone will slip out. Moreover, make sure you use lots of lube to keep the action going.” The Human Centipede Those into the BDSM scene might want to head this way. Like so many other sexual niches, this one originated in Japan. “Kinbaku” refers to Japanese rope bondage. The term is often used interchangeably with the word “Shibari.” To get a better sense of what it’s all about, it might make sense to take a look at the language. Shibari literally means “to bind.” Kinbaku means “tight binding.” Insiders describe the experience as a “power exchange” through the use of ropes. Here, you can explore the scene through a variety of free photos and videos.

The saucy vids (err, porn) you’ve stumbled upon or sought out may have led you to believe that DP is a sex act that involves a vagina owner being simultaneously penetrated in their bum by one penis owner and in their vagina by another. Pro tip: This position is perfect for all three people who are into rimming or analingus, so all threesome configurations can do it. It’s a great starter position before you go all acrobatic and explore different penetrative sex positions like the ones I mentioned above or in the next section… Arousal isn’t limited to vision. When it comes to sex, hearing what goes on can be just as exciting as seeing it. This platform provides visitors with an audio-based erotic experience. The clips range from masturbation sessions, partnered sex, jerk-off instructions, dirty talk and more. It’s a little bit like listening to neighbors have sex, but in a world where you can choose what they sound like, what they say and how long they last. The longer the sex session goes on, the less likely the body is able to produce ample lubrication to keep the session enjoyable, explains Searah Deysach, sex educator and owner of Early to Bed, a pleasure-product company in Chicago that ships worldwide. How to do it: The ultimate oral fantasy where two partners get on their knees and take turns giving head to one partner. If the receiving partner has a penis, one giving partner can focus on the penis while the other can focus on the balls. Or, if the receiving partner is into analingus, one giver can blow him from the front while the other can rim him from behind. 69 + 1

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It allows people with penises to strap on a dildo and penetrate their partner with their penis in one hole and dildo in another at the same time,” Matatas says. These five tips will set yourself up for pleasure, regardless of position. Remember how expansive the definition of threesomes really is

I entered the experience with one goal in mind: I wanted to completely let loose and allow myself to fully indulge in my sexual side, acting on every impulse and voicing every desire. Anyone can explore double penetration,” Matatas says. “It can take place with one person dual-penetrating someone else, or a combination of three people, or an individual double penetrating themselves.” Go slow, get your mind and body aroused from the things you normally like during sex,” Matatas says. Then, and only then, should you start penetrating. It’s the best of nerd porn. Want to see that a woman is intelligent? Look to the passage she chose to read. Want to see that a woman is sexual? Look at her face as an invisible hand brings her to orgasm.Also: “Remember to reapply lube once you’re in motion,” Matatas adds. Consider establishing a safe word One of the best positions for DVP is to have the receiving partner kneeling over one of the giving partners, at the edge of a bed, while the second giving partner’s standing behind the receiver,” says Neal. In the time since its 2012 launch, Cubitt’s work has been viewed over 45 million times in 200 countries.

One of the biggest critiques of mainstream porn is it’s too genitally focused. Beautiful Agony stands as a ”multimedia experiment” to figure out just where eroticism in human imagery lies: the body or the face. They’re pushing for the latter.

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If, for instance, you want one partner to penetrate the other anally and vaginally, Matatas recommends investing in the SquareParts Deuce Harness.