But there are only so many disparaging comments about lesbians and tactless editorial choices that a reader can take. The author's ability to convey complex ideas in a concise and accessible manner is commendable, making this book suitable for readers at any stage of their journey. Listening to this was a good choice, although I’m sure I’d hear Bretman’s voice in my head even if I went with the physical book option— his voice/style is that strong.

Comical, straightforward, and " very very very " entertaining—internet superstar Bretman Rock Sacayanan Laforga is beloved by millions of his followers. It was so lovely to read about Bretman’s experience with gender identity and I am definitely going to re-read and highlight the passages that resonated with me.I bought the physical book to support him but I listened to the audiobook and that’s truly the way to go so you feel every “BITCH!

You're That Bitch welcomes you into Bretman Rock's world—from how his childhood in the Philippines, his family, Filipino culture, and being a first-generation immigrant helped shape him into who he is today.The use of humor and relatable anecdotes adds a touch of lightness to the profound messages conveyed. Being a Filipino-American myself, I genuinely felt like I was reading a life memoir from a best friend, and it was inspiring to see someone from my culture achieve such monumental and groundbreaking moments at such a young age. While the social media personality acknowledges that perception varies for everybody, he remains hopeful that his story somehow leaves the readers with one common experience. Overall, I found it really interesting and I will for sure read it again in the future if I somehow lose inspiration or find myself at a low point.