Swinging Tales: A Collection Of Short Stories Of Swingers Having Fun

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Maybe it's the loss of a job, the end of a relationship, or the realization that Taylor Swift songs are really, really catchy. The point is: There are many things that will happen to you in life that you just can't prepare for. And in my case, it was when my friends invited me and my wife on vacation...to have sex with us. How did I get here? When I was 25 I was cheated on. I’d always been a very jealous person, particularly in relationships. I’d go snooping through my partner’s cupboards and scroll through their phone looking for things that I didn’t want to find, but found anyway. I hated being this type of person and when my relationship broke down, I swore to myself that I’d never let sex be the thing that ended a relationship. It seemed that the universe agreed, and around time I decided to keep sex and emotions separate, I was introduced to the deliciously freeing world of swinging. Later, we attended a masturbation workshop, which would be better described as a meditation on self-pleasure. My husband and I spent the morning on a private, nude island near Raiatea with a group of swingers, getting full body tans while letting husbands and wives take turns playing with my naked breasts. We settled into the familiar comfort of not having to hide anything; not having to pretend that we define our love with sexual fidelity. In having the opportunity to be ourselves, we were able to truly relax. And that’s what vacations are for, right?

Honestly, I liked them both and wish things had gone differently, but there are a few lessons I hope they learned from this trip. The couple had their first swinging experience in a club in Sydney, Australia, and were initially apprehensive. They didn’t have any sexual encounters but acted as voyeurs - watching others without getting involved.

In 2000 I suggested to my husband since he was never going to forgive any thing or any one for the way we had him treated after he discharged from the Navy with a honorable discharge. All I had done until then was I did have one affair while he was Underwater for three and a half years out of pure lonlyness after our marriage a year and a half before. then when he returned two years latter things were just such a disruption with his nine years seniority and more than sixty percent of the UAW plat he was retuning from his military leave to. I was trying to keep him from being more disruptive than nearly 160 other Military returnees had been the last year. Anyway we all agreed to go to a hotel that's when i realized my girlfriend was mad for lying to her and not telling her the truth about this swinging couple. She told me if we did anything that we were over. I told her lets leave i will not throw away three years for one night with this couple. She told me no we are doing this i want to do it. So i went along with it and we swapped and had a lot of sex and a great time with the other couple.

We tend to be more open and less surface level, everyone is nude and disarmed without any judgments. I find with other women I can be honest and deep instead of competitive and catty as we are not sizing each other up to see where each of us sit in the hierarchy. Five years into the relationship, the pair decided to open up about their different desires - ranging from career aspirations to fantasies. They decided to identify as 'ethically non-monogamous' - which means they communicate before having sex with others outside their marriage. They hope to "break the stigma" surrounding non-monogamy and swinging. Cate, a podcaster, said: "The first time I swung I was terrified. Theirs is a really negative stigma surrounding the lifestyle. I thought a hairy chested dude wearing a gold chain with a beer belly was going to come out and f*** me.

I said as long as he could get me showered and out the door in time for my second date with the muscle-bound guy from Thursday, then he was welcome to have me. A little bro-time never hurts so we headed off into the more populated strip of bars and proceeded to get sh*tfaced.

I could either take this gentleman up on his offer and dive headfirst into the swinger's world (with my wife's approval, of course) or I could excuse myself politely and leave the situation in a way that didn't cause a rift.Even as experienced swingers, we were grateful to have spent the first few days becoming grounded with just each other, ensuring our communication and bond were solid: this always makes sex with others a more seamless experience. Of course, having the kind of sex most people only get to fantasise about didn’t hurt either. Friday The parties gives us a reason to keep in shape, meet people, make friends and of course a lot of **. I feel very proud of my wife when she has been **. We both will enjoy several partners at a party night. when driving home from a party we are both so high on the ** my wife will often use a ** and I drive with an **. We cannot wait to ** each other once home. Some time we have stopped in a layby. We cannot wait until home. The following days we have ** every day sometimes twice a day as we talk and relive the party. For us the swinging life is beyond fantastic. The couples we have got to know have introduced us to holidays all over Europe in Villas, on boats and private holiday homes . Cate discovered she was bisexual after a few years of swinging as the lifestyle liberated her to explore her sexuality. Cate added she feels safer at swingers' events than in standard ‘vanilla’ clubs - ordinary night clubs- as she has never had an incident where a man has done something untoward or non-consensual.