Sex 101: A Guide to Intimacy for Newlywed Couples

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Toby and Stormy offer a ten step process that will have you feeling ready to offer your honey a sensual massage tonight. Bring your fantasy to life in this hotter-than-hot standing move. If the receiving partner is the one wearing the heels, they’ll be at the exact right height for deep penetration when they lean over a bed or table. Other sexual materials also might help create some sparks in your love life. Do some research and see what you might be missing out on. In this episode Toby and Stormy dive into divorce and what the single life might look like. We give you five tips to help you heal! From break up sex, rebound sex, grief, healing, and filling the space, we talk about it all.

Also send us topics you would like to see us cover in an episode and we will do so! We would love to know more about what you want to hear about. On top of health and safety reasons, gloves can make for a really nice slide when you’re all lubed up and make for a breezy clean-up. Hair Everything on the list is negotiable except the lube. Sexual lubricant is an absolute need for pleasurable anal sex because, unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating. Use safer sex practices . It can be easier to relax and enjoy yourself if you feel confident that you are practicing safer sex. With this in mind, make a plan to make your sex life as safe as possible. If you can, before you have sex, get to know your partner, and talk openly about your sexual histories. Use a condom or dental dam every time you have sex, and for the complete act. [1] X Research source Haavio-Mannila, E., & Kontula, O. (1997). Correlates of increased sexual satisfaction. Archives of sexual behavior, 26(4), 399-419Vegetable products: They can also break down your condoms and, if used internally, can increase the chance of irritation and infection. They’ll also stain your sheets. So to help inject some creativity into your sex life, we’ve compiled 69 fun positions we think you should try ASAP (along with some sweet and guaranteed-to-please old faves). Ironically, good old-fashioned 69 isn’t on this list — but don’t worry, we’ve got a separate run-down of different ways to 69, too.

Anal sex is one of the most popular sexual fantasies people want to explore. We know it's on people's minds regardless of gender, sexual orientation, or relationship status because of how often we get questions from the diverse Bellesa community about it. The bbs really want to how to start having anal sex and how to make it as pleasurable as possible.Yep, turns out a beach ball can turn into the bouncy sex prop you never knew you needed. It provides lots of soft support to the receiving partner, who leans their body over the ball while the penetrating partner enters from behind. Bonus: suspending yourself above the ground reduces the risk of sand getting into uncomfortable places. Communicate openly with your partner . Communication with your partner will improve your sexual satisfaction and help with your intimacy. [8] X Research source Davis, D., Shaver, P. R., Widaman, K. F., Vernon, M. L., Follette, W. C., & Beitz, K. (2006). “I can't get no satisfaction”: Insecure attachment, inhibited sexual communication, and sexual dissatisfaction. Personal Relationships,13(4), 465-483 [9] X Research source Byers, E. S., & Demmons, S. (1999). Sexual satisfaction and sexual self‐disclosure within dating relationships. Journal of Sex Research, 36(2), 180-189 [10] X Research source Haavio-Mannila, E., & Kontula, O. (1997). Correlates of increased sexual satisfaction. Archives of sexual behavior, 26(4), 399-419 It can be hard to establish and maintain open communication with your partner, especially if you aren't comfortable with sex and what you want. Think about what you can say and still feel comfortable and safe. Send your listener questions to be answered anonymously each episode to [email protected] or [email protected] We already know that pain means stop. If you notice blood, the same rules apply. It may be an anal fissure, a minor tear in the anal lining that will heal on its own with rest, or the result of hemorrhoid irritation. Slowing down and using more lube next time will help prevent this. But if you find you bleed every time you play, talk to your doctor. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists. FAQ: Your sexual health [internet]. Washington DC: American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists; 2020 Oct. [cited 2022 Feb 28]. Available from https://www.acog.org/womens-health/faqs/your-sexual-health

Centres for disease control and prevention. Anal sex and HIV risk. 27 Oct 2016. Atlanta. Available from: https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/analsex.html To prevent minor tears to the delicate anal lining, it’s a good idea for everyone to trim their fingernails. Otherwise, you can use disposable gloves, which can help prevent discomfort and infection if you have any cuts or scratches on your fingers and hands. Indulge in your fantasies. You don't need to go full blown over the top with the things you like in bed, but some basic kink can really add variety and interest to your sex life. The problem is that sex can easily become routine, especially when you've been with someone for a while. To keep it great or make it better, you want to break up the monotony. Nothing says "goodbye monotony" like silk blindfolds, fuzzy handcuffs, and a fun game of Bad Cop. Department of Health and Human Services: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Condoms and STDs: fact sheet for public health personnel. Available from: https://www.cdc.gov/condomeffectiveness/docs/Condoms_and_STDS.pdf The asynchronous kind of communication that occurs while sexting also gives you more time to tap in and craft sexy, imaginative responses. (And if you need more guidance as you learn how to sext, Glamour has you covered.)Gallo MF, Steiner MJ, Warner L, Hylton-Kong T, Figueroa JP, Hobbs MM, et al. Self-reported condom use is associated with reduced risk of chlamydia, gonorrhea, and trichomoniasis. Sex Transm Dis. 2007;34:829-833. He or she needs to stimulate her clitoris with one of his hands, even though it may be distracting because if this doesn’t happen, she has very little chance of orgasming.

In this episode Toby and Stormy explore how to talk about sex with your partner and give your 5 thoughts and questions to get the conversation started. Couples that talk about sex have better sex. So start having the conversation today. Because exposure to bodily fluids is involved, there is a level of risk associated with anal play. The lining of the anus is sensitive to damage, making it a more vulnerable area for potential infection transmission. The use of barriers like condoms, sanitary gloves, and dental dams can help prevent and reduce the spread of infections. Blood This position is basically beach sex 101: Just pull your swimsuit to the side and get busy. For this on-your-feet move, find a secluded, wind-protected area, lean up against a sturdy support, and enjoy some intimate time in the sun.

Each week Toby & Stormy answer anonymous listener questions and we LOVE your questions so much! This week Toby and Stormy answer your questions on male versus female orgasm and high sex drive.